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Phoebe Clausen-Sternwald

Integrative Counsellor and Grief Educator

  • Grief & loss
  • Serious illness & end of life
  • Trauma & post-traumatic stress

In person and online

Session languages: English, 繁體中文, 简体中文

“Helping people to Re-member and Re-connect with the Self”

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About Phoebe

I am an integrative counsellor and grief educator based in the New Forest, Hampshire, and I provide both remote and in-person sessions. I offer short-term and long-term (open-ended) counselling to adults over 18. Much of my work is with grief and bereavement, including pregnancy and infant loss and the traumatic loss of a child. I also work with end-of-life support, trauma, anxiety, burnout, cancer and relationship difficulties.

After gaining a B.S degree in Nursing, I worked in palliative and geriatric care. In late 2004 I moved to the UK to work in nursing, and after a number of years I retrained as a counsellor. I have nearly 30 years of experience as a medical professional. Today I am a counsellor at Shooting Star Children's Hospice and I moderate Tender Heart online grief groups. I have previously worked as a counsellor at Wessex Cancer Support and Oakhaven Hospice.

I encourage you to open to the possibility of growing from life adversities. We can meet in person in the New Forest or remotely, by video or phone.

How Phoebe works

My counselling is integrative. I draw on Internal Family Systems, in which I hold a Level 1 certificate, and on Compassionate Inquiry, alongside CBT, mindfulness and a person-centred way of working. I hold CPCAB diplomas in Therapeutic Counselling and in Cognitive Behavioural Skills and Theory. I offer both short-term work and long-term, open-ended counselling. Sessions last 60 minutes.

Approaches

General information from Kyan about each method, not a description of how Phoebe works.

Integrative therapy

Integrative therapy combines ideas and methods from different therapeutic approaches, chosen to suit you and what you bring. Rather than following one model, the therapist adapts the work as it goes along. This flexibility can help when needs change over time.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Internal Family Systems (IFS) sees the mind as made up of different “parts”, such as a part that worries, a part that protects or a part that feels hurt. Getting to know these parts with curiosity and compassion can ease inner conflict. The aim is a calmer, more balanced relationship with yourself.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)

Cognitive behavioural therapy looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions keep each other going. Together you notice the patterns that hold a problem in place and try out new ways of thinking and acting, often with small practical tasks between sessions. It is widely used for anxiety, low mood, stress and sleep problems.

Mindfulness-based therapy

Mindfulness-based therapy uses practices that train attention on the present moment, with openness rather than judgement. Noticing thoughts and feelings without being carried away by them can reduce stress and help break cycles of worry or low mood. Programmes such as MBSR and MBCT are well-known examples.

Person-centred therapy

Person-centred therapy, developed by Carl Rogers, starts from the idea that you are the expert on your own life. The therapist offers warmth, empathy and genuine attention without steering the conversation, so you can explore what matters to you at your own pace. Many people find it helps them feel heard and grow in confidence and self-understanding.

Who Phoebe works with

  • Adults
  • Older adults

Focus areas

  • Grief & loss
  • Serious illness & end of life
  • Trauma & post-traumatic stress
  • Relationship problems
  • Burnout & exhaustion
  • Anxiety & worry
  • Living with cancer
  • Pregnancy and infant loss
  • Traumatic loss of a child

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Training and qualifications

Education

  • B.S Degree in Nursing
  • Diploma in Therapeutic CounsellingCPCAB
  • Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Skills and TheoryCPCAB

Further training

  • Internal Family Systems Level 1
  • Grief Educator
  • Compassionate Inquiry
  • Pregnancy & Infant Loss
  • Children & Young People Bereavement

Education, further training and memberships as Phoebe listed them. Kyan hasn’t checked these.

Sessions and prices

  • Counselling sessionGBP 75

    60 min · In person · Online · By phone

    I provide short-term and long-term (open-ended) counselling to adults over 18, in person in the New Forest or remotely.

  • Free introductory chatNo charge

    20 min · Online

Practical details

Session languages
English, 繁體中文, 简体中文
Meeting formats
In person · Online

Questions and answers

Can we meet in person or online?

Both. I am based in the New Forest, Hampshire and provide both remote and in-person sessions. Remote sessions can be by video or phone.

Do you offer short-term or long-term counselling?

I provide short-term and long-term (open-ended) counselling to adults, age over 18.

Which languages do you speak?

I speak English and Mandarin.

Can we talk before we start?

Yes. I offer a free introductory chat of 20 minutes by video.

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